kingdom of sexualty Part 3

The four core needs of a woman

1)   she need to feel loved =they can tell so don’t try to hide it because you will not win

2)   She needs to know she is cherished = they need to know it in there mind and if you don’t make them feel that way then they will move on since they know there is move fish in the sea

3)   She needs confidence that her environment is safe and secure.= so make sure you have them safe,

4)   She need to know that her loved ones have what they need. = they don’t mess around so u better help them out anyway you can

You guys want to know why you can’t keep a girl friend, it’s because you are not meeting any of the needs and so they are leaving you to go find some one else that can

They need to start getting love from a father that loves his mother.

If you parents don’t love each other then it’s hard for them to cont to love you as well

Gen 2:24

Ps 23 the lord is my Shepherd

No man can feel all 4 of your need all the time

The 4 core needs of a man

1.He needs a reliable consistent male role model (godly) it can be anyone that you want but let it be someone that you can be someone you look up to

2. Consistent discipline and accountability in his life (you have to be right on or they will work around it )

3. He needs the appropriate respect of those around him

get out from under mom and dad or you will never grow up doesn’t matter how hard you try

4. Mothering (a women that he can move heaven and earth for u ) but is before you get marriage and this is someone that is older then you

Even if you run from mom will find you because they when ever leave you

if a man doesn’t have this stuff meet then they are no the right man.

Also a woman can’t mold you into how to a man

Is 49:15

And when he talk about having a mothering  just reminded me that you can have more then one mother in your life because sometime you can't get a hold of your real mother so you need some other else that can take that role when she is not around